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How to Make the Most of Your Wedding Day Photos: Tips for Every Stage

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Updated: Nov 14, 2024

Planning your wedding photos is as essential as planning any other detail of your big day. From the quiet moments of getting ready to the final twirl on the dance floor, each stage offers its own unique photo opportunities. As a Kent-based wedding photographer, I’ve learned how to capture genuine, relaxed moments—and I want to share tips to make sure you feel confident and comfortable so your true selves shine in every shot.


Pre-Ceremony Prep: Creating a Calm Start To Your Wedding

Your wedding day begins with excitement—and a little bit of nerves, which is totally normal! Here are some ways to capture the magic of the "getting ready" stage while keeping things as stress-free as possible.


  1. Choose a Naturally Lit Space Light is everything in photography, so choose a room with large windows if you can. Natural light will give your skin a soft glow and make the photos feel airy and bright.

  2. Keep Your Getting Ready Area Tidy A tidy room makes a big difference in photos. Clear away any clutter, leaving out just the items that matter—your dress, bouquet, and maybe a glass of bubbly!

  3. Wear Matching Robes or Pajamas Coordinated outfits with your bridesmaids look amazing in photos and add a polished touch to the morning shots.




First Look: A Moment Just for You

If you’re planning a first look, it’s one of the most emotional parts of the day. Here’s how to make the most of it:


  1. Let the Moment Breathe Take a deep breath and let the moment be just for the two of you. Don’t worry about the camera—just enjoy seeing each other.

  2. Pick a Private Spot Choose a spot that’s away from the hustle and bustle. This makes the moment more intimate and keeps you focused on each other.

  3. Stay Natural This isn’t the time to pose; just let your emotions flow. Your photographer will capture the love and excitement that naturally come through.



The Ceremony: Where Magic Happens

Your ceremony is the heart of your wedding day, and it’s filled with so many beautiful moments that make for timeless photos.


  1. Plan for a Clear View Make sure your photographer has a good line of sight to you and your partner throughout the ceremony. If possible, position yourselves to catch the best light or open up space for creative angles.

  2. Lose Yourself in the Moment Focus on each other, your vows, and the emotions of the moment. Forget about the camera—it’s there to capture your genuine reactions.

  3. Relax Your Hands and Shoulders Keeping your hands relaxed and shoulders down makes a big difference in photos, adding to the serene and loving atmosphere.




Post-Ceremony Photos: Celebrating with Loved Ones

The newlywed photos and family portraits are a must-have, but they’re also a time when things can feel rushed. Here’s how to make them feel as natural and enjoyable as possible:


  1. Build in Some Time to Celebrate Take a few minutes to hug your guests, take in the moment, and just breathe. Then, when it’s time for portraits, you’ll be refreshed and ready.

  2. Keep the Group Shots Simple To keep things moving smoothly, stick to a few key family groupings. Your photographer will help guide the arrangement, so you won’t have to worry about a thing.

  3. Stay Close and Keep It Real Lean into each other, hold hands, and don’t be afraid to laugh. The best portraits come when you’re truly enjoying each other’s company.




Reception: Let Loose and Enjoy

As the day moves into the celebration, it’s time to let loose, relax, and enjoy the moments with your family and friends. Here are a few ways to get incredible photos at the reception:


  1. Embrace the Dance Floor The reception dance floor offers some of the best moments for spontaneous photos. Whether it's a twirl or a laugh, these shots capture the joy of the evening.

  2. Take Advantage of the Lighting If you have special lighting effects, ask your photographer to capture some unique shots with them. Kent weddings are often in beautiful venues with great ambiance—use it to your advantage!

  3. Don’t Worry About the Perfect Pose The beauty of reception photos is in their spontaneity. Enjoy every moment, and your photographer will catch the magic.




The Final Dance and Goodbyes

By the end of the night, the celebration will be winding down, but the magic of the day doesn’t have to end. The last dance and farewells can be just as beautiful as any other part of the day.

  1. Make Your Last Dance Personal Whether it’s a romantic slow dance or a fun upbeat moment, make the last dance reflect who you are as a couple.

  2. Plan a Unique Send-Off Consider sparklers, confetti, or a special exit to create a memorable send-off that will look amazing in photos.

  3. Take a Moment to Look Back Before you head out, pause for a final photo in your venue. These closing shots have a beautiful, reflective quality, capturing your love and joy after an incredible day.



Final Thoughts

Your wedding day is one of the most beautiful days of your life, and every moment—from the quiet of getting ready to the last dance—is a memory worth capturing. By following these tips and staying present in each moment, you’ll create images that truly reflect your unique love story.

If you're looking for a wedding photographer in Kent who understands how to make you feel comfortable and capture the most meaningful moments, let’s connect. I’d love to help you make the most of every stage of your big day, ensuring that the photos will be as timeless and heartfelt as the memories themselves.

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Harvey Giles

Wedding & Elopement Photographer

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Harvey Giles Photography is dedicated to providing couples with the very best wedding photography services. Whether you’re looking for a simple, understated look or an elaborate production, I specialize in capturing the best moments of your wedding day. Based in Sevenoaks, Kent, I offer a range of packages to suit your needs, and I am always happy to discuss any special requests you may have. Contact me today to book your wedding photography session.

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